Pools

Check out this analogy! I'm crazy with therapy!!!!



Men hop from pool to pool because of their compartmentalizing. "I can't be your boyfriend, but as your friend (starting tomorrow) we can hang out all the time!!!" Hop....Hop....Hop.



Women swim in one pool. Unfortunately they bump into their boyfriend that caused them pain (anger, hurt, pain), then they bump into their good friend (same person but happiness, love, fun). It's hard for them to separate out their emotions which leaves them swimming in a pool of mixed emotions.



Hopefully they will bump into REALITY a lot and perhaps be able to build and swim in a brand new pool. :)